Trying to find the right spot on the beach is exasperating

Whew, we made it through the Fourth of July, which is always considered a landmark, sort of a half way mark in the summer. For some of us though, we never got out of the driveway.

In other words, all those who have been to the beach, raise their hands. I thought so. Every year, I vow I’m going to take a day and spend it at the one place people pay money to visit, the ocean.

But I think something happens to those of us who live here year round and attempt to make it to the beach once in the season. I don’t know if it’s the milk white legs or all the sand stuck inside our bathing suits, but it’s definitely an out-of-body experience.

For instance, I will pack up that car, get to the park and head down to the water. Seems simple enough. The problem is that after I step in, just to remind myself how wet water is, I never can find my way back to where I put my stuff. Sure it might be the fact that I am just about legally blind, but I think there is something else going on. So when I come out of the water, which I am forced to go into from peer pressure, I’m so lost I could just as well have landed at some beach in the Middle East.

Everything is a blur and I often say excuse me to umbrellas and sorry when I trip over coolers and offer to exchange insurance information with a beach chair. It’s odd since my husband’s eyesight seems to increase whenever we go to the beach. I swear he can spot someone wearing a French-cut bikini a couple of ZIP codes away. He’s been on thin ice since the last time a woman walked by with only enough material on her bathing suit to make a handkerchief; his eyeballs fell out into the sand and we spent hours digging them out. There were so many buried there it was difficult to find the right ones. Apparently it’s a common male problem.

Anyway, probably the most difficult thing to do if you make that one appearance as a year ‘round resident at the beach is to pick out that right spot. You don’t want to seem like a Doofus and not know where you are going. Please, you live here, right?

The beach has changed though. So don’t be surprised when you get there to find a sea of umbrellas and enough people to fill a Republican presidential slate on a good afternoon. I know you expected a little solitude, but the number of beach goers seems like a family of 60 relatives in those old rent-subsidized one-bedroom apartments the Russians put up for athletes in the early ‘50s. It would be so packed that they would have to coordinate when one group inhaled with the other group across the room that exhaled.

Seeing all those people may cause you to be anxious, sort of like when you hear the side effects of those drug commercials on television that warn you of depression, speaking in tongues and leaking underpants.

So you are going to have to canvass the area before you make your move. One place near the water looks good, but then there is a fellow next to it with a machete chopping a watermelon the size of an aircraft carrier and with the intensity of a wanted poster in the Post Office. Maybe not.

Another empty spot emerges, but as you head out a family sits down behind and is putting up a tent that could house the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. And judging by the number of kidlets, it could actually sound like them too.

So what I would do is the old Johnnie Carson routine and take the Ventura Freeway, cross the 101 and exit at Pismo Beach, go on to the 106 and drive to the Hunnington Beach exit again. Sure you’ll be in San Diego, but at least you’ll have found a spot. Hey even the sharks are finding a hard place to come ashore.