Elizabeth Jean ‘BJ’ Hildebrand, retired nurse
Elizabeth Jean “BJ” Hildebrand, 75, of Dagsboro passed away Tuesday, April 14, 2020, after a 10-month battle with pancreatic cancer. BJ was born June 1, 1944, in Norristown, Pa., to Margaret and Richard Couch, and grew up with her eight sisters in Bridgeport, Pa.
She graduated from Bishop Kenrick High School in 1962 and from St. Joe’s School of Nursing in Philadelphia in 1965. BJ spent nearly 40 years as an operating room nurse, a career she loved. She spent seven years in Dayton, Ohio, before returning to Pennsylvania with her only daughter. She spent most of her career at Sacred Heart Hospital before retiring from Paoli Surgery Center.
Throughout her life, BJ was extremely passionate about community involvement, making connections and helping others. She regularly hosted picnics and gatherings for friends and family at her home in Collegeville, Pa. She was a founder of the Bux-Mont chapter of the Association of Operating Room Nurses and volunteered with her local hospice organization.
Upon her retirement in 2005 to Dagsboro, BJ remained active and social in her community. It gave her great joy to bring people together, sharing her love of dark chocolate, wine, good conversation and good books. She was on the board and vice president of the AARP South Coastal Delaware chapter, vice president of the Lord Baltimore Women’s Club, president of the Women’s Civic Club of Bethany Beach, member of the Bay Colony Social Committee, Lunch With A Purpose and Cripple Creek House Committee. BJ founded the Bay Colony Helping Hands Committee to help neighbors in need, which has since been renamed in her honor.
BJ was a loving wife, mother, stepmother, grammy, sister and dear friend to so many. She joins her parents, Richard and Margaret, and sisters, Sarah, Edwina and Deborah in Heaven. She is survived by her husband, Allen “Bud”; daughter, Jennifer; stepsons Scott, Andrew and Tim; sisters Louise, Cecilia, Terry, Richelle and Annette; and grandchildren Braden and Delaney.
Services and a celebration of BJ’s life will be announced once the family has determined a date. We ask that in lieu of flowers, donations be made in memory of BJ to Delaware Hospice (delawarehospice.org).
Online condolences may be made by visiting www.melsonfuneralservices.com.
